Everything on this world voice down to the most basic and fundamental element that keeps us alive, the element that keeps the world going, Money.
Its not just business, education or tax, even family also take into serious consideration of the financial of each.
Seriously, i've made up my mind.
This time, its permanent.
House, NOT home.
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Goodbye Ah Ma...
To the best of my knowledge.
Since young, when mummy call say we coming down, grandma will go market buy fish, cook porridge or buy jwee quay.. Cuz she knows we like it when we bite so happily (baby times).. Slowly when we grow up, ah ma buy KFC for us.. Even though she dont have much money.. She still buy 1 meal we 3 share.. Bad thing is that she remove all the skin.. Say unhealthy.. Haha but its a part of the memory i have of her..
Due to my dad's family side very kaobei and the traditional mindset, so my mum cannot bring us back to "niang jia" (female family side) house.. So not long after, grandma start to have problems like not knowing how to return home from market, dont know how to get change of money, forgotten she cooking water half way.. For her safety we send her to old folks home (salvation army pasir panjang).. This is where grandma stay.. I'm in my secondary school.. We visit her almost every week once.. Buy things for grandma.. Fishballs, chee quey, all the things she like.. Right after eating, we ask her, eaten? She say no.. Then when we say, you didnt eat fishball? Oh yaya just eat.. Her memories fade swiftly then..
Not long later, grandma dont remember who we are, who she is, where is her original house.. Salvation army pasir panjang branch soon cant cater to her needs.. Cant take care of her that good anymore.. She's transferred to changi branch.. Main branch for slavation army..
Ah ma is diabetic.. Then when she is sitting at the sofa from morning to evening, her back sore and rot due to her illness.. Soon spread to feet and lower back.. All this years her condition worsen.. Let me fast track here..
- Lose ability to sit
- Knee cap remains at 90 degress cant straighten due to bone harden without movement (sit too long)
- Bed ridden
- Back sore and rot due to diabetic
- Feet rot due to close together and poor medical dressing
- Lost ability to eat / go toilet
- Swollen neck
This condition lasted for 5 to 8 years or so..
Changing of the feeding tube is almost gonna kill her..
Now, grandma finally get to eat rice, food, buns, fruits and also have a big house instead of 1 room 1 hall de.. =)
RIP Ah Ma..
Since young, when mummy call say we coming down, grandma will go market buy fish, cook porridge or buy jwee quay.. Cuz she knows we like it when we bite so happily (baby times).. Slowly when we grow up, ah ma buy KFC for us.. Even though she dont have much money.. She still buy 1 meal we 3 share.. Bad thing is that she remove all the skin.. Say unhealthy.. Haha but its a part of the memory i have of her..
Due to my dad's family side very kaobei and the traditional mindset, so my mum cannot bring us back to "niang jia" (female family side) house.. So not long after, grandma start to have problems like not knowing how to return home from market, dont know how to get change of money, forgotten she cooking water half way.. For her safety we send her to old folks home (salvation army pasir panjang).. This is where grandma stay.. I'm in my secondary school.. We visit her almost every week once.. Buy things for grandma.. Fishballs, chee quey, all the things she like.. Right after eating, we ask her, eaten? She say no.. Then when we say, you didnt eat fishball? Oh yaya just eat.. Her memories fade swiftly then..
Not long later, grandma dont remember who we are, who she is, where is her original house.. Salvation army pasir panjang branch soon cant cater to her needs.. Cant take care of her that good anymore.. She's transferred to changi branch.. Main branch for slavation army..
Ah ma is diabetic.. Then when she is sitting at the sofa from morning to evening, her back sore and rot due to her illness.. Soon spread to feet and lower back.. All this years her condition worsen.. Let me fast track here..
- Lose ability to sit
- Knee cap remains at 90 degress cant straighten due to bone harden without movement (sit too long)
- Bed ridden
- Back sore and rot due to diabetic
- Feet rot due to close together and poor medical dressing
- Lost ability to eat / go toilet
- Swollen neck
This condition lasted for 5 to 8 years or so..
Changing of the feeding tube is almost gonna kill her..
Now, grandma finally get to eat rice, food, buns, fruits and also have a big house instead of 1 room 1 hall de.. =)
RIP Ah Ma..
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